Memorial Day: The Unknown Grave

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Of all the gravestones in a military cemetery the ones marked, "Known Only to God" seem to me to be the coldest and most lonely. Without name, date, or epitaph they are easy to overlook, especially when surrounded by multitudes of more relatable grave markers.

But just like it's neighbor, underneath this lonely, unmarked cross lies the mortal remains of some woman's child; the light of her eyes and hope for the future, cut off in the bloom of his life. He might be 18 years of age, or he could be 29. Like his name, we don't know. Only God knows.

There he will lie until the end of time, sleeping peacefully surrounded by his comrades in arms, at rest from the wars of the world and the struggles of men. But for his mother and loved ones, they will never know it for this soldier sleeps in peace, known only to God.

For this reason I have always felt compelled to stop and pay my respects to these unknown. Lay a hand on the stone and whisper “Soldier, I will remember you.”

My great-great uncle, Private Israel Goldberg, lies in one of these lonely unmarked graves in Manilla. I think about him often and hope that on a day like this someone will remember his unknown grave. Walk by it, touch it, maybe leave a flag or a flower. And wonder who the brave fellow is that rests below.

"Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.”

To all the Unknown Graves today, “Soldier, we will remember you.”


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Memorial Day with Roll Call

Grateful for spending an early Memorial Day with these 19 national treasures in Fort Worth yesterday.

Years ago when we first started going to Roll Call, the WW2 veterans were in their 80s, with an average monthly attendance of about 75 vets, sometimes capping out at 90 (almost hard to believe now we ever had that many WW2's in one room!). It's a little different now. The first veteran I ran into yesterday as he cheerfully walked in (without a cane or walker) announced to me he was 100. And the Korea and Vietnam War caps have replaced the WW2 and Pearl Harbor ones.

But the fighting spirit is the same. And as one dimpled 95 year old told us yesterday, "I'll see you next month!"


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Goodbye Bud

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Goodbyes are hard. And there have been so many of late. But this one... 💔

Bud called me up a couple of months ago. Phone calls with him never lasted more than a minute - minute and half if he was feeling really chatty. But this time he stretched it out a little longer. He wanted to talk about our friendship over the years and what it meant to him. I was tearing up by the end (he had that affect on me). Gentle, kind, soft-spoken man that he was, this was an unusual display. It sounded like he was saying goodbye. I didn’t want to believe it, but I knew in my heart this would be the last time. It was.

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On Thursday it was my turn to say goodbye. Gathered together with his friends and fellow Marines, we gave Bud one final adieu. I patted his kind hands for the last time as he lay there so handsomely decked out in his uniform of the Corps, medals on his chest, American flag draped over his casket. He looked so fine.

Taps played. A gun salute was fired.

Goodbye Bud.

Semper Fi and farewell my wonderful, handsome Marine.


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